This is one of a 10 part series originally written for Spike’s friend, the amazing dating and attraction master teacher, Carlos Xuma‘s website.
Spike walks you through 10 different aspects of your own personal well being and life that will make you gentlemen far more attractive to the opposite sex. There’s a lot that goes into becoming the kind of man that women want to be with. Stick with Spike through this 10 part series and by the end, you will have the knowledge to ramp up your game considerably while at the same time, becoming stronger within, as a real and strong MAN.
In part one – Expectation, Spike tells you not what you need to acquire, but what you should take away from your game. You may have heard the quote, “Expectations are premeditated resentments.” Well, nowhere is that more true than in the world of love and attraction. Take away the expectation and you can take away the resentment, anger, and pain of rejection. Let things that are out of your control happen without you taking them personally. People will do what people will do and there is nothing you can do to change that. So stop trying.
Go into every interaction with an open mind and heart and simply let things unfold. If she says no, big deal, you did not expect that she would do anything at all, but you were open to any and all possibilities. Sit back, relax, and watch the world unfold. When you are not upset, you can flow freely and you will always be cool, calm, and attractive.
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