Other than a lack of self-confidence, few things will turn a woman off faster than a man who has no clue what he is doing in the bedroom. Sex is a subject in which you, as a MAN, need to be well versed.
Especially in a long term relationship that can tend to grow stale over time. Having strong sexual skills from the very start can get you, and keep you, a happy and healthy love life.
The problem is, who’s teaching us? Where do you learn these skills? When I was coming of age, there was public school and Dr. Ruth. In school, I think I learned what an ovary was. No matter how much “Sex Ed” a school gets into, they will never teach you how to please a woman, that is not their purpose anyway.
So I learned from trial and error and what my, just as clueless, classmates pieced together for me. Although I do have to thank a lovely young lady in high school who taught me many things. And Dr. Ruth is a shrinking 85 year old now.
Nothing more off-putting than having your grandma tell you how to get her rocks off, and most of you probably have no idea who she is anyway.
Another problem we face – our own egos. We think we know what we are doing because, hey, we’ve been with a woman or three, right? So what. You do know that upwards of 80-90% of all women fake orgasms frequently right?
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