WHEN IN DOUBT… SHUT THE F&$K UP. Spike Spencer, the Dating Sage, tells the gentlemen an easy way to be cool.
We as men are in a constant state of fixing things. It’s in our DNA. Whether we are repairing a sink, “fixing” her plumbing, or waxing prophetically on how others should live their lives; we just can’t help it.
Yes you can! A strong MAN knows how to listen. But even more importantly knows how to NOT chime in where it is not needed. When I am asked questions on what to say to a woman, it is very simple. When in doubt, shut the f&$k up. Say nothing. It makes you seem far more mysterious and intriguing than you really are. And it’s easier than actually saying something that might come across badly.
If you do have to say something, ask a leading question, like, “And how did that make you feel?” She will gladly tell you and you will learn a lot more than if you were flapping your gums, telling her how she should react, feel, or act in a particular situation.
Go On, Be Strong