LISTEN TO YOUR WOMAN! DON’T FIX, JUST LISTEN. The Dating Sage, Spike Spencer explains the reasoning behind women decompressing through talking.
As men, we always want to take care of our women. We are protectors, providers, and problem solvers by our very nature. But when it comes to women, we have to fight the urge to fix everything, as that can be detrimental to what we wish to accomplish. In fact, it can actually do more damage to the situation and anger the ladies we love.
Let your woman tell you all about her day. And guys, DON’T TRY TO HELP. She’s a big girl, she’s fixing it herself by talking to you about it. You are her sounding board. There is an actual chemical process that women experience when talking about the things they are experiencing in life, whether it’s the good, the bad, or the ugly.
If she asks for your help or advice, give it. But only if she asks. Otherwise, you are already helping her fix her problems just by listening to her talk.
Go on, be strong!